All things naturally tend to move from order to disorder. Unfortunately, this basic force means relationships must constantly work to counteract it. The moment you stop actively maintaining your relationship is the moment it starts to fall apart. Unfortunately, this is the natural order of everything. That said, there are many ways to add excitement, joy, and genuine romance to your relationship; however, it all begins with understanding what love truly is.

We did not choose the traits we were born with or the circumstances that shaped our beliefs in childhood. However, now that you're older and hopefully wiser, it’s time to improve your chances by playing the cards you were dealt and making the best of your hand to achieve a positive outcome. This journey starts with self-love. It begins with self-acceptance and a commitment to personal growth and improvement.

At its core, jealousy is an emotional response to perceived threats—real or imagined. It often arises when a person fears losing the attention, affection, or loyalty of a loved one to someone else. Some psychologists have argued that jealousy is an evolved mechanism we develop to help protect critical social bonds, thereby contributing to the survival and stability of partnerships.